Living a double life by South Asians especially men

Living a double life by South Asians especially men

“A hypocrite despises those whom he deceives, but has no respect for himself. He would make a dupe of himself too, if he could.” William Hazlitt

There are so many men that live two lives in South Asian families, one with their family and one outside.

May it be drinking partying or having a woman outside their home. It does not matter, if they are married or not.

In cases, you will find out that they have a wife and a girlfriend with a child.

The excuse that I am told is that we must out of respect for our families lie, conceal and deceit.

It is only one life to live and why live it fake?

Hypocrisy is ramped where people pretend to be pious, religious and loyal, however it is a completely different story in truth.

“The only thing worse than a liar is a liar that’s also a hypocrite!” Tannessee Willams

Living a double life by South Asians especially men.

I was livid when a male friend told me that 100% of men are liars, cheaters and living double lives. It is hard to believe or I don’t want to believe it.

Try telling the truth and living with the consequences, it just may set you free.


Once a fox was roaring in a forest searching for food. As to his bad luck, he got caught up in a trap. He tried his best to get free but lost his tail in the struggle. He felt very small, thinking that now, every fox would laugh at him. He felt so sad that he thought of committing suicide. But then he said to himself, “It is cowardice to kill oneself. I should think of something else.”

At last, the fox planned to persuade all the foxes to part with their tails. So, he called a meeting of all the foxes and said, “We should get rid of our tails as they are heavy, ugly and tiresome.”

Though, he tried to divert the attention of all the foxes from his tail less appearance, one clever fox noticed it and said, “Sir! you wouldn’t have given us this advice, if you weren’t tail less. Isn’t it?”

So, we say, “hypocrisy seldom works”

Why not try sincerety?

Sincerity makes the very least person to be of more value than the most talented hypocrite.” Charles Spurgeon

Living a double life by South Asians especially men is an open dialogue.

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